Parental Conflict

Conflict between parents is a normal part of relationships and family life. Parental conflict is generally issue-focused, this is where:

  • parents have differences of opinion or disagreement
  • there continues to be respect and emotional control
  • they can resolve or negotiate a solution

Harmful conflict occurs where:

  • there are greater levels of blaming/personal insults 
  • there is a focus on winning – so a solution is rarely found

Frequent, intense, and poorly resolved conflict, can have a negative impact on families.

Parental conflict can mean many things. It can range from loud, angry arguments to non-verbal conflict (the silent treatment). The intensity of conflict may vary. This will have different impacts for children depending on:

  • their characteristics
  • background
  • resilience and vulnerability
  • their circumstances

The Impact of parental conflict on children is explained further here:

Tips for parents and carers experiencing conflict: https://www.annafreud.org/resources/family-wellbeing/advice-and-guidance-for-parents-and-carers-in-conflict-or-separating/ 

Good communication is key to resolving issues There is an excellent Digital Programme that provides online courses for:

Talk further to one of Family Hub members of staff who can offer more targeted help and support and direct you to mediation if needed.

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